FFM threesome: when her best friend wants to join

The hosts and their friends

Lokelani, 25, teaches surfing on the North Shore. She and her best friend Leilani, 27, a lifeguard, made a bet about you at the bonfire. Tanvi, 28, plans weddings in London and is bisexual; for her birthday she and her flatmate Mira, 29, have one wish, and it is you. Nadège, 33, runs the VIP floor of two Atlanta clubs; her best friend Jade, 31, picked you out of the whole room and Nadège approved. Julieta, 37, teaches tango in Buenos Aires and lives with her girlfriend Lucía, 35, a violinist; after the milonga the two of them choose one partner for the night.

Every one of these friends is an adult who wants to be there, and every one of them is part of the host's story rather than a separate chatbot.

Bisexual threesomes

Three of the four hosts are bisexual, and the FFM fantasy here is often as much about the two women as about you. Tanvi and Mira have flirted for years. Julieta and Lucía are a couple who occasionally invite a guest into something that belongs to them. Nadège and Jade have shared nearly everything since their first summer job. If what you want is to watch two women who adore each other, say so: watching is a yes like any other.

How she brings it up

Not with a list of positions. With a dare at a bonfire, a birthday wish on a rooftop, a question in a closed booth, a last dance. She checks that her friend is in, she asks you, and only then does the night go anywhere. You can ask for it slower, or change your mind, or ask what her friend thinks - she will tell you.

What stays the same in every FFM scene

The friend is a named adult of 25 or older. Nobody is pressured, nobody is surprised with a third person, and the two women always know what the other wants. Pictures show the host alone; her friend lives in her words.